Along with the rest of the world, we at Ars are mourning Sir Patrick Stewart—the beloved award-winning actor best known as Captain Jean-Luc Picard in Star Trek: The Next Generation and Professor Charles Xavier in the X-Men franchise—who died Wednesday at the age of 86.
A statement released by Stewart’s representatives said:
We announce with great sorrow the passing of Sir Patrick Stewart yesterday at his home in Los Angeles, in the loving care of his beloved wife Sunny, following a brief and poignant journey with Alzheimer’s Disease and Lewy Body Dementia. He has been held in the warm embrace of family and friends, surrounded by live music, prayer, tears, laughter, and the kind of profound emotion that only he could inspire after a lifetime of devotion to us all. We will forever cherish the peaceful ease and reflection on his face, an enduring reminder of his invincible grace.
Through the actor’s X account, the family has requested that, in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions be made to the Johns Hopkins Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center Fund and the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America Caregiver Resources.
Born in Yorkshire, England, in 1940, the acting bug bit Stewart at the age of 12, when his English teacher handed out scripts for Shakespeare’s The Merchant of Venice and asked young Patrick to read the part of Shylock—a role the adult Stewart would later play for the Royal Shakespeare Theater (RSC), among many other parts. His signature bald head emerged early, around 19, thanks to alopecia. He briefly worked as a cub reporter and a furniture salesman before winning a scholarship to the Bristol Old Vic Theater School, and he landed his first professional role in 1959, playing a marooned pirate in a production of Treasure Island for the Lincoln Repertory Company.

Stewart's death obviously has, and for pretty explainable reasons. I consider myself a proud "second-generation Trekkie". My parents watched TOS in their college dorms in the 1960s. My older brother grew up watching TOS re-runs and TAS in the 1970s, and introduced me to the TOS-cast films when I was a kid in the 1980s.
TNG premiered when I was eight years old. For the remainder of the 1980s and most of the 1990s, watching 'Star Trek' once a week (TNG, and then later DS9 and VOY) was just what my family did. It was a ritual.
Jean-Luc Picard and the crew of NCC-1701-D were companions to me through some of the most turbulent years of my life — the death of my best friend when I was ten years old, the rocky adolescence that followed as I wrestled with epistemological and phenomenological questions that my young mind didn't have the tools to answer, and much more.
When 'Star Trek: Picard' premiered its third season in 2023, I was enraptured. Sure, it was a pretty obvious nostalgia play. But I don't think nostalgia is inherently a bad thing. And the season did seem to serve as closure for much of the cast, who generally felt like their last outing in 2002's 'Nemesis' didn't do their characters justice (a sentiment with which I very much agree).
The climax of that third season, with all of my old friends reunited on the bridge of the Enterprise-D for one last adventure, was cathartic and beautiful and made my heart soar. I could not be happier that Patrick Stewart lived to see that happen.
While the observation of his passing has mostly been in the tone of unreserved praise and adoration (which I feel is very much deserved), some have noted that Stewart had flaws. Of course he did, he'd be the first to point that out. When he was a young father and husband, he'd tell you himself that he'd not performed terribly well in either role. The man had a lot of demons from his own abusive upbringing to conquer, and that took some time. It's not an excuse, but is an explanation.
I learned a lot of valuable lessons from Jean-Luc Picard:
— Being curious about the unknown is better than fearing it.
— Seeking to understand our fellow-creatures is better than seeking to mistrust them.
— Reason and compassion are compatible.
— Principle and duty can coexist with warmth and humanity.
— True leadership is about guardianship, not overlordship.
But here's another thing that I learned from Patrick Stewart himself, which I think is no less valuable:
You will fail in your life. You will do things that you shouldn't do, things that will hurt other people. Sometimes you will do them by mistake. Sometimes you will do them because you experienced a lapse in your moral judgment. What's important is how gracefully you accept your failure, offer sincere penance to those you've harmed, and work to better yourself and the world around you in the aftermath.
He did that, and he taught me that doing that is one of the hallmarks of goodness.
I didn't just learn that lesson from Patrick Stewart, though. I also learned it from my own father. Like Jean-Luc Picard, my dad has demonstrated every day of his life that strength and compassion are not mutually-exclusive traits. He's demonstrated that quiet devotion to the people you love, and exercising authority by way of stewardship and kindness is the mark of a "real man", not bluster and bullying.
My dad's 80 years old, and just like Sir Patrick, he has Alzheimer's. He's doing okay. I don't think we expect to lose him any time soon. But that dimension has certainly amplified the emotional weight of Stewart's death for me.
If I can live into my 80s and be half the good influence that Patrick Stewart, or my own father, has been, I'll consider it to have been a life very well-lived indeed.