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I Like Big Puns And I Cannot Lie

I've been on this hellsite a while and finally gave in and made a side blog. Mostly a fandom/kink blog but honestly anything goes at this point. She/her, bi/queer, born in the 80s, US-based, fat and fat positive, old-school. Beef and bellies will be celebrated.

Started out here with Marvel stuff and went from there. Some SPN so Destiel is a thing that's happening occasionally (love that chubby!Dean). Snippets of Johnlock may occur - mostly ACD Holmes (vintage gays) but a bit of it all really. Bisexual awakening of Buck on 9-1-1 got me stepping into that pool occasionally. And I reserve the right to add more ships as life goes on- as do we all.

(Yes I know my blog name has nothing to do with kink but I couldn't let the opportunity pass thanks Chip Zdarsky for making ridiculous jokes)

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I bought a desktop laminator using money I got for my birthday and by god if this isn't the sexiest piece of office equipment I've ever had the pleasure of owning

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sabinerondissime

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Bohatyrka by sculptor Vasily Korchevoy

wanderingnelipot

Here's some more amazing plus size sculptures by Vasily Korchevoy:

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"Standing in Marble"

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"Luxurious"

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"Lush"

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"Prosperity"

See more here: (https://www.saatchiart.com/v.korchevoy)

Also check out artist Adam Shultz...

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"Untamed"

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"Sisters"

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"Aphrodite"

See more here: (https://artcloud.com/artist/adam-schultz)

byjove

It’s still controversial to say fat dudes are hot and what’s worse is that the people that get angry at that statement are generally straight men. Women like fat dudes. Bisexual dudes like fat dudes. Gay dudes like fat dudes. Yet when someone, especially a straight woman, voices her attraction to fat men there are hordes of other dudes in her comments saying “Nuh uhhhhh you’re lying.” How would you know? You don’t fuck men.

honourablejester

I don’t know why that affected me so strongly, but I’m watching a youtube video on disasters on Lake Huron, and the first one involves a coal freighter that was lost in the White Hurricane of 1913 called the SS Argus. Everyone on the ship was lost. But it’s mentioned that the captain’s body washed up later, and was found without a life jacket. So they thought, based partly on testimony of another ship that thought they saw them go down, that it just happened too fast for him to have time to get his jacket. But then another body was found, that of the second cook, and she was found wearing the life jacket marked ‘captain’. And that’s 


It didn’t work. It didn’t save her. But it’s so very possible that he spent his last moments alive trying to save someone else, one of his crew, and they probably both knew that it wouldn’t work, that there wasn’t a lot of hope in a blizzard on the lakes in November, but he tried 
 he tried anyway. Even if it did nothing but maybe make her body easier for her family to find.

You know that Mr Rogers thing of ‘look for the helpers’? How many times has someone, facing the end, done something tiny and fragile and maybe hopeless just to try and help someone else? Whether it works or not. How many people went to their graves at least trying?

That has to say something about us. As a people. As monstrous as we sometimes (perhaps often) are, so many times we were also 


Whoever saves one life, saves the whole world.

And sometimes you can’t save one life, sometimes it doesn’t work, sometimes there’s no getting out of this for anyone, but 
 try anyway. Because it matters anyway.

And maybe no one will ever know. But maybe also some day more than a century down the line, maybe some idiot will be crying into her coffee because of what you died trying.