Oh No… Our Gender… Its Broken

dam…….. that website “you feel like shit” (it’s like a questionnaire / troubleshooting guide for when you feel like shit) really works………………….. im not even all the way thru it and i even half-assed a lot of the suggestions and i already feel loads better

for some reason, with this website, i was able to complete small tasks ive been fruitlessly bugging myself to do for weeks??

anyway, i feel almost good now :^)

im glad this got some notes!!!! i hope it helps y’all find some measure of peace or comfort <3

Reblogging for my own reference later, and in case it benefits anyone else reading this.

another option:

turning it into a windows 95 logo is also acceptable.

last night my partner held a somber little passover seder to show me what it’s about and when they got to the part where they were supposed to open the door for elijah they paused, frowned, and said “oh. huh. there is a clown.” and I looked out. and sure enough. there was a clown.

Sorry for everyone I'm spam booping but I WANT THAT 1K BADGE

I'VE JUST GOT TO 500 NOW

700!

Listen. If being mean to you guys wasn’t so much funnier than giving you exactly what you wanted, I swear I wouldn’t do it.

But it is. It really is.

As always, AO3 link is still in the first chapter!

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Danger Twink Powers Activate

“Danger Twink is on the move!” It was Nightwing yelling it into the comms. It had to be, because not a damn one of the rest of them could have got through that sentence without laughing.

Oh, his voice was all joyful glee and Spoiler was soooo mad she left when she did because what the fuck is she missing, but the message was clear.

Things in the ballroom hit a flashpoint, and for some reason Danny was doing the shit kicking. She’d wonder what the fuck Jason thought he was doing, since he’d been in arm’s reach of the guy all evening, but.

Yeah. Last she saw, Croc was separating them. Apparently Danny took a little less kindly to that than you’d think.

Alright, I guess we doing this… and now it’s a novella… because I have Chronic Overexplaining Syndrome

This is why I put these up for adoption in case anyone was wondering

*EDIT: link to the fic!*

Danny hadn’t thought anything could be worse than his parents’ rampant hatred of ghosts. Than spending every meal being treated to a lecture of his painful death at their hands.

But, joke’s on him, because of course things could always get worse for the Ghost King.

ultimately i guess my advice when it comes to figuring out your gender identity and expression is: think of it like you're in a dressing room, but for your gender, and just shop around, try things out and see what fits. you can always return anything that doesn't fit right.

put “top 5” anything in my ask and i will answer ok go

I’m curious and need peoples help

What do people think about there names like birth name or chosen name I can understand why trans and non-binary people might not like there birth names but my question then is essentially what about there chosen name even how do you know it’s your name like does it just fit? Or like just feels like it’s you? Or is it like just an identifier just like if someone called you the (hair color) kid you recognize that they are talking to you but your name isn’t that obviously you just know that they are talking about you almost like a nickname

By the way free to answer this if you are cis, trans, non-binary, questioning, etc.

It's hard to explain, but... let's say your going shopping. Specifically, clothes shopping, be cause your current ones don't fit quite right. Perhaps they're a little too small or a little too big or the wrong shape or too tight around the shoulders or chest or hips. So you go looking for new ones. It's not always easy; sometimes it takes a while to find some good clothes, other times you can spot the clothing that will fit you right away. These "clothes" are our "names". Does that make sense?

That actually makes a lot of sense when you put it that way thank you! :)