devout-khajiit:

Frankly, I’m of the POV and opinion that you really shouldn’t be scared of your spirit guides, gods or not. Yes, you should acknowledge their great, tremendous power and how that could harm you. Like it’s good to acknowledge that Zeus could absolutely fuck you up if He wanted to. But at the same time… why would Zeus want to fuck you up? That’s the question.

See, when you worship, work with, or otherwise interact with a spirit, you’re gonna hopefully seek out a friendly relationship. Even if it’s more vertical than horizontal, you’re still on good terms with your spirit.

Your friends shouldn’t want to hurt you. Your teachers shouldn’t want to hurt you. Your coworkers shouldn’t want to hurt you. Etc, etc, just fill in whatever relationship type you have. So essentially, your spirit guide shouldn’t want to hurt you, and if they do, that’s a problem entirely.

I kinda somewhat get the idea of fearful obeisance, where you provide humble respect but keep a healthy amount of fear. I get the concept. It just does not fit in with my preferred way to work with spirits.

This post isn’t saying “If your spirit guides hurt you, you must have done something to deserve it” either. I think, personally, that’s a really bad take. Harsh lessons exist, yes, but that’s not the same, and the difference should be that it’s being done for your genuine highest good and that your guide isn’t getting some kick outta the hard parts of it. If your spirit guide is actively trying to harm you for funsies or some shit, there’s a problem.

It’s fine to be a bit nervous. It’s fine to feel a bit of fear when faced with such intense power. But you shouldn’t be scared of the person that holds the power, is my opinion. If you do feel scared, consider (A) if this is a person you want to work with, and (B) if this is even the person you think it is, because a fear response can mean a malefic spirit.

(via crazycatsiren)