85. Yes, we did have a Blockbuster card. I just got some strong flashbacks.
But from the thumbnail, I was briefly concerned that this poll was specifically about how many Land Before Time movies people had seen. And like….I know there were a lot of them. Including the one with the aliens. But I don’t think you’re going to hit 100 without counting episodes of the tv show.
I use Kobo, which uses a slightly different method. Some publishers already don’t use DRM. Great! You’re good to go. Most others will be listed as using Adobe DRM. For that, you’ll need Adobe Digital Editions.
Download the DRM file. This will be an ASCM file (Adobe Content Server Message) called ‘URLLink.ascm’. This isn’t an ebook, it’s basically just a link.
Open in Adobe Digital Editions. It should automatically download the ebook.
Locate the actual file location. By default, this is Documents > My Digital Editions. This will give you the epub file, with DRM.
Follow the above instructions to install DeDRM in Calibre.
Drag the epub file into Calibre. If you’ve installed DeDRM correctly, there’ll be a button up the top labelled 'Convert books’.
Up the top of the window, there’ll be 'Input format’ on the left, and 'Output format’ on the right. Input will default to EPUB, select whatever you like (including EPUB again) for output. Select 'OK’ (bottom right).
Locate your Calibre file. For me, this was Documents > Calibre. By default, books are listed in subfolders by author, then title. Open the folder for the book you converted, and you should have four files - a cover, an OPF file with metadata, your new EPUB file, and an old version with the file extension of .original_epub.
Not necessary, but I prefer to do this for organisation - you can now place the DRM-free EPUB file wherever you like. I have folders for my own library that I can back up as I wish.
You may want an ereader not tied to a particular platform. I use one for my phone called Moon+ Reader. It has a free option with unobtrusive ads (which only show when you close a book). Otherwise, using Calibre on my PC has its own epub reader.
Anyway. Not hyperbole. Microsoft closed its ebook platform in 2019 and people lost their entire libraries. Back your books up.
Amazon is ending the ability to download/transfer ebooks from Kindle devices via USB connection on February 26 2025!
You should still be able to use the PC and mobile apps, and in browser reading, but your device will be entirely reliant on WiFi (which isn’t always available or reliable!). Here’s 1 article on it.
I’ve been using Epubor Ultimate to remove DRM from all of my ebooks so I can convert and save them, able to read them either in Kobo or Kindle, or in Calibre. I can save them as Epubs, PDFs, or what have you.
Also keep in mind Bookshop.org, an online store that interacts with independent booksellers, now has an ebook app and options from those indie stores. You can even set it specifically to your own favorite local bookstores if you want.
I get a lot of ebooks due to space issues, being a rental/apartment dweller. So the cracked and converted books are saved to my PC and external backup drives. I bought them. They’re mine. I ought to be able to read them, and not worry about them being “updated” or removed on some whim*.
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(*I noticed that Jim Butcher’s The Aeronaut’s Windlass has a different cover than when I first downloaded it, not sure what else has changed yet. Good Omens also went from the classic black cover to the TV show tie in cover.)
Another month, another sketch of my character Chariot. This time she’s playing dress-up and is wearing an outfit honoring @conjuredcrow’s witch, Lacrima. A goat who’s into the occult seems right.
I do actually care marginally about the guy in that reddit screenshot who voted for Trump and is now worried that he might lose his medicaid funding because I did not fucking stutter when I said healthcare is a human right but the people losing their internships and job offers to the hiring freeze are straight up hilarious.
My mom was telling me about this YouTube video she watched (I can’t remember the name, sorry) where the person shared a screenshot of some MAGA voter from Florida asking for help, because his wife had been hired for a nursing job with the VA in Texas, so they sold their house and were preparing to move. But they rescinded her job offer after Trump’s executive order. The post from the guy was basically like “I already contacted Senator Ted Cruz’s office, and they said they couldn’t do anything about this. Please help me get this story to President Trump, we love him! We voted for him 3 times! And we know this was just a mistake and he’d help us!”
Just……………..a part of me laughs, and another part of me thinks about how cult followers genuinely believe that the cult leader cares about them
This is the part about believing in universal human rights that can be a bit difficult: they’re universal, and should never be denied anyone, no matter who they are or what they have done.
You can be – you should be – furious with people who voted for Trump, for wilfully trying to sabotage those rights and make them conditional, a privilege for the “deserving”, a privilege they can deny the “wrong” kind of people.
And when the MAGA crowd are hit by the consequences of their actions, and denied basic human rights because it turns out their Great Leader doesn’t actually include his followers among the privileged, it’s tempting to say that they deserve to be denied those rights, because that’s what they wanted to do to others.
But if you do that, you don’t truly believe that those rights should be universal; you just have a different idea than the MAGA crowd about who should be included among the privileged.
You can still tell the MAGA who’s crying that the leopards ate their face that you’re angry with them for letting the face-eating leopards loose. But you shouldn’t be fine with their face being eaten.
The key here, IMO, is the distinction between your emotional reaction to hearing about it and how you consciously believe people should be treated.
Having a positive emotional reaction, enjoying the schadenfreude or whatever, doesn’t mean you’re bad and isn’t something you need to suppress. You just need to also be able to say, “but that shouldn’t happen, not to them, not to anyone.”
This is a good articulation! I’m going to reblog this addition because I think it might be helpful for some people who are sorting out their feelings to see this stated so plainly!
here’s some more unsolicited adult advice as someone in her 30s who knows there are a lot of twenty somethings and teens that follow her: if you’re trying to build a new habit you really want, and are struggling, you have to break it down to the smallest building block possible. If you’re failing, you haven’t thought small enough. I know it’s possible to hear stories of people who just snapped into new life mode one day by “just deciding”, but truly what’s happening there is a confluence of events and experiences that force the brain into some sort of epiphany. You cannot will an epiphany. It’ll never work. For most times of your life, you will need to build habits intentionally, and that means not working against yourself and to set micro goals. like laughably tiny goals. because once that easy tiny goal is met, you can build off it, tiny goal after tiny goal until you reach your big goal.
so for example, if you want to be a morning person that gets up at ass crack dawn so that you can work out, eat brekkie, shower, and get to work at a leisurely pace, and you’re not that person because you will hit your snooze button 800 times, you have to get the big picture goal out of your head. think smaller. “I want to get up 15 minutes earlier than I normally do.” If you can’t do that, make it 5 minutes. “I want to cook breakfast every day” hell no too big. “I want to eat something, anything, before I leave the house” hell yeah, fantastic. When you go to the grocery store to make sure there are things in the house for breakfast, if you keep buying bagels and microwave sandwiches that you ignore, you gotta think smaller. SMALLER. What’s something so easy to eat that you’ll never say no to. Is it a yogurt? Is it a handful of grapes? Is it a hostess ho ho? is it hot cheetos? FORGET the big picture of the fantasy put-together woman preparing a full nutritious meal that you’d be proud to admit to. Think only of the smallest goal you can achieve. If you know you can’t say no to an ice cream sandwich, put a ton of ice cream sandwiches in your freezer and have one for breakfast every day until it’s so instilled in you that you gotta get up to eat something you can start diversifying.
It sounds like, from the lack of habit place, that must take forever. But really it doesn’t take too long to form the habit once the discipline kicks in. the trick is that you have to give your brain something easy to become disciplined to. If it’s too hard, think easier and smaller. No one has to know. Literally no one in the gd world has to know that for 4 weeks when you were 22 you had an ice cream sandwich for breakfast every day. who cares. If it gets you eating oatmeal with fresh fruit in a few months who cares. you did it, yay. smaller, easier. if you can’t do it, think smaller and easier. smaller!! EASIER!!! You are not thinking smaller and easier enough. break your brain thinking how small and easy you can go. SMALLER. EVEN SMALLER, SIS.
As someone in her late forties who has had actual life-changing epiphanies and who also still struggles to brush her teeth every day—my friend is right! Go smaller! Nope, smaller than that!
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